I adjusted my work schedule so I can come home in the middle of the day to take care of her for a couple of hours. Hospice only come out 3 times a week for an hour at a time. I do the rest of the care giving myself. I am already working part-time and can barley afford to pay the bills I have. I don't have the money to pay someone to sit with her for 4 hours a day.
I am so very sorry you are facing this. It is certainly hard enough to be losing a loved one without all of these other stresses.