My mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease. She was living with me for three years but as the disease progressed I could no longer care for her. i have four other siblings but none of them would help me with mom and I was totally burnt out it and started affecting my health. I had to put my mother in the nursing home. We live in Jersey City. my Mom have very little money and is in the process of getting medicaid. I am her power of attorney but I know it is only good while she is alive. I am also on her bank accounts but how do I become the executor of her estate or have guardianship now to handle her business if she passes. What are the legal steps I need to take.
She may not meet the criteria. But if she does, that would certainly be the easiest way to arrange to be the executor (assuming that is what Mom wants).