My grandmother is 92 and in a nursing home. She has no living children and I am the only grandchild willing to be active in her care.
She has become increasingly demanding of me. She has the nursing home staff call me constantly, demanding that I come oversee her care (She has bronchitis. Her vitals are good. She’s just uncomfortable. )
I don’t know what to say to her. I feel that she is manipulating me but don’t want to be dismissive of her.
I work full time and am very involved with me kids and grandkids.
Please give experiences and advice if you can. Thank you in advance.
Grandma is scared and lonely. But she needs to realize that u have a busy life. That she will need to get involved in the activities at the NH.