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Is your profile up-to-date as in was it 3 weeks ago that she had hip surgery? Sometimes the anesthesia (sp?) can make them wonky for a little bit. Sometimes longer, unfortunately. This sounds very difficult to deal with. I'm sorry you are dealing with this.
Does she have dementia? Is she still having 24/7 aides? Did she go to rehab? Or just surgery and home?
Does she take other meds? Has she been on anti-anxiety meds before?
If she won't take meds will she do natural treatments? Like some essential oils, either topically applied or in a diffuser? Teas that are supposed to help calm a person?
Hip surgery, especially hip replacement is a big deal. Mum is only 3 weeks post surgery? I'd assume she is still certainly recovering. From the physical effects of anaesthesia, initial strong pain meds, hours in theatre, sliced, bruised, stitched or stapled, even different food in hospital. Add on to that any emotional elements. Was this elective or an accident?
Falls/accidents have an element of shock & greater fear around them. Possibly big emotional distress around "Can I go home? Still live alone? Afford rehab/carers?" Adjustment to change in independence & fear about the future. Basically, physically & mental stress.
Has Mom got home visits from PT? Or an exercise program an Aide helps with? The right people can help support her, help her to regain strength & balance, motivate & give hope too.
I would use what home services you can. Give her a change to adjust & recover. Or if she stays very anxious, gets worse, not coping, other problems coming in, then you can reassess & discuss with Mum & her primary Doctor.
Yes, she had full hip replacement almost 4 weeks ago. Has not been given a single pain med. Tylenol only. Is walking without anything. Rarely uses her cane. The surgeon said he’s never seen a recovery like this. She has 24 hour care and PT outside her home I take her to 2x week. Her father died of Alzheimer’s so I’m concerned. She’s very confused & disoriented. More than usual. Hoping it’s just the trauma of the accident. She was on the 3rd step of a small staircase and leaning down to pick up a tiny piece of dust. She’s 105 lbs so knew she broke it as soon as she fell. She’s highly active, goes to a gym, walks and rides a stationary bike.
Yes, she had surgery, went to a rehab for a short time and is living in home w/ 24 hour care. She is not taking any medication and has no pre-existing health issues. She has never been on anti-anxiety meds. Her father had dementia and I’m wondering if it’s the trauma from what she’s been through or another cognitive issue. How would I go about getting her tested to determine if it’s Alzheimer’s?
Kristen, I'm sorry to read about your mother's situation. Personally, I can't imagine anyone prescribing Tylenol for such a serious operation. My experience with Tylenol when I injured my hip and back was that it was useless.
I found more comfort, relaxation, and peace with an herbal heating pad, an herbal muscle salve, and music, lots and lots of music, all day long.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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This sounds very difficult to deal with. I'm sorry you are dealing with this.
Does she have dementia? Is she still having 24/7 aides? Did she go to rehab? Or just surgery and home?
Does she take other meds? Has she been on anti-anxiety meds before?
If she won't take meds will she do natural treatments? Like some essential oils, either topically applied or in a diffuser? Teas that are supposed to help calm a person?
Falls/accidents have an element of shock & greater fear around them. Possibly big emotional distress around "Can I go home? Still live alone? Afford rehab/carers?" Adjustment to change in independence & fear about the future. Basically, physically & mental stress.
Has Mom got home visits from PT? Or an exercise program an Aide helps with? The right people can help support her, help her to regain strength & balance, motivate & give hope too.
I would use what home services you can. Give her a change to adjust & recover. Or if she stays very anxious, gets worse, not coping, other problems coming in, then you can reassess & discuss with Mum & her primary Doctor.
I found more comfort, relaxation, and peace with an herbal heating pad, an herbal muscle salve, and music, lots and lots of music, all day long.