Mom is in SNF and is a fall risk. She said she buzzes for help to take her to the bathroom and she has to wait and therefore wets herself. I know she feels humiliated, but I don't want to make a big fuss, because I know these facilities are understaffed. She has dementia. Everytime I visit (3-4 times a week), she's always clean and the staff are always pleasant and they seem really patient with the residents (back rubs, joking, soft pats). How do I handle this?