my dad is currently in the hospital with many medical issues. some dementia had set in. been confused but only getting worse. my brothers and I are concerned there are no documents in place such as a will, end of life plan among other forms that should be in place and arent. My dad opted out of Medicare plan and only has supplemental insurance. Dont believe he realized he did this and let no one know. believe eldercare lawyer is next step to get legal stuff out if the way. once this is figured out then can just focus on the care and comfort of our father.
This is a good reminder to get these documents done for yourself as well. My husband and I had our documents done when we were still in our 30s with three small kids, and we updated them again a few years ago in our late 50s. It's never too soon to plan for the inevitable.
Naela.org is a good source as MACinCT recommended.
I found a certified elder law attorney more knowledgeable and better rates because it is their actual specialty.
Interview all of them and go with the one that fits best.
Find someone quickly before the Attorney decides that your Dad can no longer understand what is on the legal documents, thus cannot sign the paperwork.