My LO is my dad (90) with Stage 7A what we believe is Frontal lobe Alzheimer’s. He has been started on a medcation for his temper. He is in an AL as we can’t take on the temper. I am heartbroken and am sad he treats everyone so mean. (Not uncommon for him sadly)
Quite surprising that he is not in memory care, we had to move step-mother 2 months ago from AL to MC.
Sometimes we need to step back a bit, visit less, call less to save us from all the insanity. Caretaking is a stressful job, few understand it unless they are exposed to this disease themselves.
Take care of you! Sending support your way!
Here’s one:
https://youtu.be/pqmqC-702Yg
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