I'm 9 years in. It's awful and the isolation that she has created behind her lies is paralyzing. No one be it friend or family will talk to me. I'm trying to avoid blowing this out of the park, and I really resent having to defend myself when I have spent nine yrs giving her impeccable care. I have had 2 days off in these nine years
Thanx for being there in advance!
I agree with Pam above, time for your Mom to live in a new environment... that way she can befriend dozens of women and they all can gossip together... one trying to out do the other with who had the worst caregiver !! And none of them telling anything that actually happened.