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Below is the link to a question where BooMcVister posted a reply to which s/he got 4 votes for Helpful Answer. Nowhere in that thread did I see any reply from Cherokeegrrl54.
Boo- perhaps you were mistaken.
(Gosh! I had nothing better to do than to search for Boo's post. Sigh... I'd better sign off for the night.)
BooMcVicker Apr 18, 2022 Dear Friend, I do not have this issue (yet), but I am my mom's sole caregiver and have been for many years. I have two siblings; my brother lives in the same state, only about 25 miles away and my sister lives in NYC. They have not helped in any way. I have my mom's POA and I'm so happy to hear that you have your mother's.
I assume your mom has a will? If not, you two should talk to an elder care lawyer immediately. It's fortunate that your mom has the means to pay for her care, but I can also see your selfish siblings wanting those means to not decrease so they can get more money. The things your brothers ask about your mom's "value" is unimaginable. I sense that you have not told your mom about these questions and comments. I don't know your specific relationship with her, but if I were in your shoes, I would tell her and reveal how awful it makes you feel. If she's so smart, she'll support you. Who knows? Maybe she'll want to amend her will? At the very least I hope you all can have a conversation about this. Bring in a mediator, if need be. Above all, remember this:
Brothers have been torturing sisters all over the world, in every country and for too many years.
I've also looked into this and can't find the discrepancy you mentioned. Perhaps you misread something you came across on the site? If you can provide some additional information, I'd be happy to investigate further!
Admins: Reporting so you can address the concern of this poster, McVickers.
BooMcVicker: You can address any questions directly to the admins. Give them complete information with links to the particular question you are asking about. You can often get their attention by drawing a comment to "Admins:" as I did here, and then REPORTING your own question. The admins on AgingCare are VERY responsive. Good luck for tracing things down for yourself.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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Boo- perhaps you were mistaken.
(Gosh! I had nothing better to do than to search for Boo's post. Sigh... I'd better sign off for the night.)
https://www.agingcare.com/questions/how-do-i-respond-to-my-brothers-hurtful-questions-474329.htm?orderby=recent
BooMcVicker
Apr 18, 2022
Dear Friend,
I do not have this issue (yet), but I am my mom's sole caregiver and have been for many years. I have two siblings; my brother lives in the same state, only about 25 miles away and my sister lives in NYC. They have not helped in any way. I have my mom's POA and I'm so happy to hear that you have your mother's.
I assume your mom has a will? If not, you two should talk to an elder care lawyer immediately. It's fortunate that your mom has the means to pay for her care, but I can also see your selfish siblings wanting those means to not decrease so they can get more money. The things your brothers ask about your mom's "value" is unimaginable. I sense that you have not told your mom about these questions and comments. I don't know your specific relationship with her, but if I were in your shoes, I would tell her and reveal how awful it makes you feel. If she's so smart, she'll support you. Who knows? Maybe she'll want to amend her will?
At the very least I hope you all can have a conversation about this. Bring in a mediator, if need be. Above all, remember this:
Brothers have been torturing sisters all over the world, in every country and for too many years.
Best of luck,
Boo
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Reply to BooMcVicker
I've also looked into this and can't find the discrepancy you mentioned. Perhaps you misread something you came across on the site? If you can provide some additional information, I'd be happy to investigate further!
Reporting so you can address the concern of this poster, McVickers.
BooMcVicker: You can address any questions directly to the admins. Give them complete information with links to the particular question you are asking about.
You can often get their attention by drawing a comment to "Admins:" as I did here, and then REPORTING your own question.
The admins on AgingCare are VERY responsive.
Good luck for tracing things down for yourself.