My mother gets SS & a Va check from my father that passed away. She has moved in my home and she does not want me to back to work. She keeps her money she has her own account. She does not pay me for living here I don't want to ask her for money but I am going to need help from her. I have POA and I am on her checking account but I don't take her money I don't know how much to charge her staying here. My sister call the state on me. I don't know what to do. I have a brother he lives out of state and don't want anything to with mom heath. She still baths her self. and makes her bed. I don't know where to turn to I don't want to put her in a home.