My mom has Parkinsons with dementia. She lives with me and has I have been told recently by her neurologist she is 24/7. So I am her POA and take care of her finances. Basically she is very obsessed with her money and carries her purse around constantly, even when eating. She claims her money is being stolen up to a thousand dollars one time. I want her to let me put her cash in a safe place but she refuses because she doesn't trust me. So she walks around with 3-4 hundred in cash in her purse. She has lost money somewhere. Tomorrow my sister is taking her gambling which she used to do when my dad was alive. I just want to know if the day comes she needs to be placed and Medicaid does their five year look back am I responsible for this lost money?
Medicaid is totally different and is a needs based entitlement designed for the very poor. Most NH residents will if they live long enough, have to apply for Medicaid to pay for their NH stay. Medicaid is a joint federal and state program which is run by each state according to their spin on state laws. Now this is why it get's tricky in that what works in 1 state might not be valid in another. that is why so often you see that finding an elder care attorney to work out a plan for you is so important. This is what my mom did and it was invaluable - we used an estate planning attorney though as it was done well over a decade before she did NH.
In general, for property like a house, land, vacation house, only the homesteaded property is considered an "exempt" asset for Medicaid application approval assuming they meet all the other Medicaid criteria of $ and medical need. If the property is raw land or an investment property, then it is not exempt and has to by & large be sold with the proceeds going to the owner (according to their % ownership) who then is fully expected to do an approved item spend-down to get to the Medicaid limits (which is by & large 2K in "income" and 2K in "non-exempt assets" but can vary from state to state.) For jointly owned property by each person's name (not an LLC or Inc or other legal entity like a trust), it is going to get sticky as everybody's interest is exposed. You really should find an elder care attorney to work with all of you to get a plan going. Remember all states have as a minimum a 5 year look back and the property transfer will come up as it is recorded by the state and you sign off in the Medicaid application to allow the state to go into all your finances. Somebody could face a transfer penalty before Medicaid will pay for their NH stay so they can't just sign it over to the others for free. Understand?
If one of you is facing an imminent NH, then do the attorney as soon as you can. What might have to happen is that the other 3 will have to buy the NH one's ownership 1/4 share. In general, I've found that whatever the current tax assessor's value is, is what the state expects the property to be sold at. This could be either very good if it is low or very bad if it was set on 2002 - 2008 real estate values (when real estate skyrocketed) . If you need to have it adjusted down, you will likely have to provide detailed documents as to why - which may or may not be acceptable. Really you need an experienced attorney. Good luck.
It's when say they have 80K in 2010 and then today in 2013, they have $ 1,200.00 left and they live with a family member for all that time with no real expenses, that ?'s about where the $ went get asked. Or when a home, property or car get's sold either significantly under value or for free (all recorded by the state), that the potential for a transfer penalty becomes an issue.
What Medicaid will do with the look back period is have you get bank statements for those 5 years.
The main concern will be any deposits that are not part of Mom's normal income. I was never asked about any withdrawals from her account throughout the process.
My mother did have some withdrawals of this size...a few hundred dollars. so I would guess you are in the clear.
Additionally, if you want to know more about the Medicaid process I write for AgingCare and contributed this post:
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/applying-for-medicaid-155854.htm