Can my sister, cause any problems, if I give her information of what I am doing, Can she challenge my decisions of healthcare in any way. I have a Durable POA, where I have both Medical and Property POA. Can someone help me or talk with me about my situation. He has Alzheimer's mid to late stage 6, heading to stage 7 soon. My mom has it also, but she is mid to late stage 5 and can still live semi-independently with my and my sisters assistance. Help please
Unless you have something to hide, there's not a whole lot anyone can do unless the move isn't warranted. But if it is, and they don't have a better suggestion, then their objections aren't about his best interests but someone else's. And as POA, your task is to be an advocate and do what is best for HIM.
I am POA, too, and while I do what I can to involve the out-of-state rest of the family, and also listen to their suggestions and even follow the good ones that apply, in the end, I am the one making the decisions and I am firm when I make them.
But I do a lot of 'dress rehearsals' in my head sometimes to prepare...be ready for every argument with something that is rational and indisputable and if that doesn't help them see, then offer an alternative they will most surely decline (if you know what I mean!).
Good luck and I am glad I was able to help.