Mother is angry about MS and incontinence. She rebelliously drinks coffee and sodas, never tries to go in the potty. And pees lakes of urine which I am responsible for cleaning up. Try every day to get her to just sit several times a day.
She gets angry and yells at me that I don't understand her disease......
ARGH!! Help
I am so sorry that she is behaving this way.
If your Mom is still mobile, do like what my Mom [97] had to do with my Dad [93] who also was having such issues with being incontinence.... Mom got so tired of trying to clean up after him so now any time he has an oops, she hands him the cleaner, shrub brush and towels. After a few more mishaps and him needing to do the cleaning, guess what, he now is wearing Depends Guards.
Sometimes we need to use some tough love with our parents.... I know it's not easy.
Best of luck Laurie, there must be a solution to every problem.