The good news is that grandma isn't incontinent. She's been filling up diapers fairly often lately but not all the time. After having to change her pants twice in the last few hours, it seems to be the problem is that she's simply not pulling her pants down far enough anymore. So she ends up peeing into her pants and diaper. Which makes sense now why the wet pee is around the waistband and not the crotch. Any tips on how to get her to pull her pants down more? I tried talking to her about it but she insists they are down far enough. Clearly they aren't.
I have provided her with a low step placed in front of the toilet. This helps her overall and I haven't caught any accidents or wet slacks recently. I still try to watch her when she does go,
There was no incident since yesterday. I had a thought that maybe she doesn't sit far enough back in the commode now. Those commode seats are smaller than regular toilet seats. So I move the commode 2" closer to the front rail hoping that would encourage her to sit further back. She holds on to the front rail to sit down. I'm also thinking about getting a commode with a larger seat. I already have one of those over the toilet. I think she only pulls her pants down until the front of the toilet seat. If she doesn't sit for enough back, then that's not far enough.