Mum: since stroke 2018 now getting more aggitated, having tantrums, anxiety++.
Dad: getting more worn out, giving in to the tantrums, having trouble saying no. Even if says no often backs down from guilt (calls it 'comprimising').
Have suggested review with Doctor (time for meds!) or see Psychologist for strategies to help with this behaviour. No SHE doesn't want to. Arrghh!
Have suggested previously that Dad & I sneak off to Dr's on his afternoon off (carer comes to sit with Mum). Will suggest again...& repeat.
He was reluctant to go without her. Feels like he would be betraying her (he said).
Sigh... I will try again & keep explaining it is to help BOTH of them.
Sending you many supportive thoughts and understanding.