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He should be paying you now & done thru some type of personal care agreement / contract with taxes, withholding done. So all legit legally and for IRS reporting.
Doing this as an after death, is, to me, flat too too risky to be assured of becoming a beneficiary, or ever inheriting $.
The hard reality of aging in America, is that it’s super expensive AND caregivers will run out of ability to provide all care needs till forever. Maybe right now they need a bit of help with maintaining home, shopping, medication management, so it’s all ok. But 1 serious fall or couple years down the road in dementia, their care will get beyond your ability. So it’s then a move to a facility. Facility anywhere from 5k - 18k a month. That nest egg of savings will likely all get spent.
If they have ton of $ (500k-700k+ imho), their $ likely will outlive their $ & yeah you’ll get an inheritance. Folks in that situation have legal done for Trusts, outside of probate beneficiary designation. That’s probably not your parent, is it? I’m not saying this to be snarky. Most elderly only source of income is SS$ (avg $1200 mo) & only asset is their old home. They are likely to use both to pay for care in a facility. They can keep their home - but if they go onto Medicaid, you or other family will need to pay all costs on that place and then eventually deal with estate recovery (MERP) issues on that property. It can be done, but it’s like having a 2nd or 3rd home to pay & do for by the heirs and for an unknown period of time. really meet with an elder law atty to look at your folks financial situation and get a caregiver agreement contract done now.
I agree with igloo and NHWM. The odds are that he will eventually need expensive care or medical attention which will drain his resources and you will never get a penny. The avg senior spends the vast majority of their retirement savings in the last 18 months of their lives (I think like 80%). He should definitely be paying you now, with a written agreement so that if he ever needs Medicaid he won't be denied for "gifting" money to you. You may want to invest in a 2-hr consult with an elder law/state planning attorney so that you both can create a solid legal arrangement that won't have any ugly "surprises" in the future. Every state is different so you need to know what the laws are in your state. You won't be sorry you spent the money on good, professional counsel.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Doing this as an after death, is, to me, flat too too risky to be assured of becoming a beneficiary, or ever inheriting $.
The hard reality of aging in America, is that it’s super expensive AND caregivers will run out of ability to provide all care needs till forever. Maybe right now they need a bit of help with maintaining home, shopping, medication management, so it’s all ok. But 1 serious fall or couple years down the road in dementia, their care will get beyond your ability. So it’s then a move to a facility. Facility anywhere from 5k - 18k a month. That nest egg of savings will likely all get spent.
If they have ton of $ (500k-700k+ imho), their $ likely will outlive their $ & yeah you’ll get an inheritance. Folks in that situation have legal done for Trusts, outside of probate beneficiary designation.
That’s probably not your parent, is it? I’m not saying this to be snarky. Most elderly only source of income is SS$ (avg $1200 mo) & only asset is their old home. They are likely to use both to pay for care in a facility. They can keep their home - but if they go onto Medicaid, you or other family will need to pay all costs on that place and then eventually deal with estate recovery (MERP) issues on that property. It can be done, but it’s like having a 2nd or 3rd home to pay & do for by the heirs and for an unknown period of time.
really meet with an elder law atty to look at your folks financial situation and get a caregiver agreement contract done now.
Have you spoken to him about this?