It breaks my heart & she spends the entire time making me feel guilty.
My mother has been so mean to me over the last years & didn't want to spend much time with me. Now - I had to move her into assisted living as she was turning off her a/c in 115 deg Phoenix weather & turning on her heater. I had no choice but she is not happy & continues to tell me she is moving back to our home town in Texas. She can't walk & hasn't driven in over a year and continues to tell me I won't ever let her do what she wants. After about 30-45 minutes - I'm jumping out of my skin & doing everything to get out of the place. Everyone is very nice there & the place is very clean. As my sister continues to remind me - mom has never been happy with anything or anyone - I need to let it go!