I lost my job the end of 2012 and moved in with my parents where all of a sudden I became a caretaker for my father. Which I didn't mind, but I started having severe pain in my upper thighs to where it made it hard for me to walk. Now my mother is starting to get confused and mixing things up and blames it all on me and tries to say it's my mind going. She's becoming combative as well. When I had a hip transplant last year I couldn't fully recuperate as she made me feel bad by telling me she thought she was going to faint just doing the little chores I did every night. I can't take it anymore. I'm stressed out and physically in pain. My brother has me on his payroll and insurance which I try to appreciate him for doing, but when he comes down he calls me names and literally chews me out. He acts as though he owns me. I'm currently thinking about filing for disability and moving into low income housing. I didn't hurt when I had my own place. In addition, I'm 57 and my mom continually tells me to go to bed. Good gosh is there a light at the end of this tunnel? I feel trapped. Does anyone else feel the same way?