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Hi everyone, I am currently a caregiver and I work for an agency and I like my job but recently there is a secretary in the office who only tells me things and not the other workers kind of harassing me, I am starting to feel uncomfortable and kind of sad she keeps on pressuring me. This secretary doesn’t do her job right but she rather harasses me and pressure me on every little thing. When I used to work with private clients she would steal money from my checks. I work with a client in the morning and she is very sweet she’s happy with my job, but there is another caregiver who doesn’t like me and she leaves the extra work to me she tries to talk bad things about me in the office and with this client. I feel very stressed, this caregiver has been giving me issues for almost months she would do stuff to make me uncomfortable and she even wanted me to wash the clients clothes by hand but my client told her that I am not supposed to do that. This caregiver and secretary are turning into a nightmare I don’t know what to do or how to react I feel alone in all this. Please give me an advice. Thank you

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I'm honestly not sure what you can do.

I would advise you to Google , The Gray Rock Method. They may help you. You will understand what it means after you read about it.

Best of luck anonymous.
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AnonymousR2324 Oct 14, 2024
Thank you so much!
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I would change agencies.

You do not give us specifics. WHAT exactly is the secretary harassing you about?
How can this secretary steal money from your checks?
What things the other caregiver did made you uncomfortable?
What have you said to your supervisor about these things?

It would be quite unusual for a single agency to have two people who seem dedicated to being "out to get you". But if that is the case I would work elsewhere. Wishing you luck.
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AnonymousR2324 Oct 14, 2024
She would send me messages for just little things she would want to make work on my days off it’s her job to cover shifts when no one is available. She is one of the people in charge of doing checks and I used to miss money from my checks. The other caregiver would put negative notes on my work days and she insults me. I can’t really go talk to my supervisor because this secretary is the one who bosses around the supervisor and the supervisor would listen to her more.
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No one deserves to be harassed on the job. Time to be looking for a new agency to work for, and file a complaint before you leave.
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You need to go to who owns this agency and put in a formal complaint. Pay should be reviewed to see if you have been shorted and if so paid back. I can see if someone has called off that you would be called to do the shift. You just don't answer the phone. You can go to the labor board and file a complaint too. Start looking for another job.
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