Help my grandson get a computer, car and car repairs, he paid the computer down to $800. He said he would give me $400.00 a month until it was paid off. The last money he gave me was $300.00 in May. It has been 6 months now and he hasn't paid anymore. He let it be known that it was smart to use someone else's money to get what he wants. I have called him numerous times and have had no response from him. He's 25 years old.
But don't listen to rumours. If you know where he lives, get hold of him and present him with a statement showing what he owes and when you want instalments paid. If you find he really can't pay, give him a flea in his ear and insist on the very least he owes you: namely, a full explanation of what he's got to say for himself.
You love this kid or you wouldn't have agreed to fund him. Now you can really help him by teaching him to respect the value of money. Don't be shy, it's just tough love - we all need a dose of it sometimes.
You're not getting into financial difficulties because of this yourself, are you? Just checking.
id suggest seeing if your b*stard g son would help you by working off some of the money at a specified hourly wage . he likely has a drug habit and still needs money . pay him 5 bucks an hour and knock off another 5 towards the debt .
if ( when ) my son shows up here again thats exactly whats going to happen to him . hes going to make laughable wages until that debt is at least partially atoned .