I just married with my husband 3 month and after we don't have a room at my husband house. His sister doesn't let the master room for my husband, and her sons was sleeping with my husband for few years because her husband ran away from her so she have stay at his house. But my husband married me and she doesn't want to let go of the room. That's not good for my marriage. I was very angry. She chased her brother out and asked me and my husband to move out and go rent a house. I asked him go stay with my parents. I pity my husband on it got house like no house. He paid all the house loan and he gets nothing, I don't know what to do to help him.
A few years ago, your SIL's husband abandoned her and she turned to her brother for help. She moved with her sons into her brother's house, where they were all overcrowded but managing.
Three months ago, you married your husband and moved into the same house where they were all living, along with another brother (where did he come from? Did he live there too before she moved in?). This house still belongs to your husband.
The brother moved out and has gone to live somewhere else.
Your SIL thinks that your husband and you should go and live somewhere else too, so that you have privacy as a married couple and she and her sons can continue to live in the family home.
As an alternative, she suggests that you and your husband can move in with your parents.
Hmm. And what about the fact that the house belongs to your husband? Is she going to buy the house from him? Will she pay him rent?
Why can't your husband work this problem out with his sister? It shouldn't really be up to you.
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