Or tell them Mom is fine here at home with me? We are both healthy. They all want her in a nursing home but we have Home Health nurses coming by regularly and her blood pressure and edema have improved greatly lately. She loves living in her own home and I don't mind living with her. She is 91 but in good health. I give her medicines every night and take her to all of her doctor appointments. The siblings I think want her in a home so they won't have to worry about her, but she totally does not want that and loves being in her own home. She thinks it a great waste of money to go to a home. I think the siblings resent me for all the reasons siblings so that sort of thing.
What does ignore involve for you?
Hoping it has some not reporting to them, not responding to phone or e-mail messages until they learn not to treat you in that way. You don't deserve it.
Makes caregiving even harder.
I appreciate all the answers and input.