He use to bath himself but he can't anymore and I just can't do it. He doesn't listen to me never brushes his teeth or washes his hands n his hygeine is getting bad. I took care of my father for years. He had Alzheimer's n we had hospice come in for several years. They bathed him 2 or 3 times a week brought us diapers n medicine n ensure. They even brought us a walker. Before he got too bad they would walk him around the house too. I really need someone like that.
Do you want to continue to care for this person? If not and there is no family, you may want to call Adult protection services and report him as a vulnerable adult. Then allow the State to take over.