If you divorce a spouse with severe dementia. All his assets are in an IRA. I have been his caregiver for 4 yrs........through violence with guns and hallucinations. I am getting seriously sick and need to remove myself from this situations. Are they divided as assets ?
Have you found him another doctor?
Have you contact a lawyer who specializes in Elder Law, to discuss ways to pay for a nursing home?
Anyway thanks for the answers.....there is no Elder Law Lawyer in our area.