I missed Christmas day with my grand daughter last year because my two sisters would not have dad for the day and now the same is happening this year they wont have mum so i can spend the day with my 4 year old and 6 month old grand children I cared for my dad up until he died this year and now i am caring for mum my two sisters dont help and i cant take anymore when they come to visit mum they say i am not keeping the house clean they criticize me on every think my partner is living 320 miles away because they dont want him living in the house with me and mum They goad me into losing my temper I am trapped because if i move they will put mum in a home and she does not want that .
Ive never done it before, haven't a clue whether it will work or whether Mum will be confused to hell and back but I will keep you posted
I would like you all to know that i spent the day with my grand children and had lovely day my son and daughter in law cooked dinner whilst played with the little ones .
It came about as i found out that my two sisters have POA over mum and i made so many demands on them, which left them in a position not to refuse me .Dont get me wrong i love my mum and she gave me her blessing and she went to one of my sisters for the day
i have told them that if they want me to care for mum i want to be payed and want it back dated from the 13 th feb when mum came out of hospital to date that when i get a job mum is not to be left on her own and that they sit with mum when i go want to go out and that i am going on holiday to spain with my partner and they will have to arange between themselfs who stays with mum if they cant do this then i will take them to court to have the POA revoked as i feel they have not got mums best interests at heart