We live in WV. My mom has been in a nursing home for over a year using Medicaid. She is allowed $50 per month for personal care. Plus ...enough monthly to pay for her extra health insurance premium. She has a house. Her husband, my dad, has been deceased since 1988, and no one lives in her house. I, her son, am on her checking account so I can write checks for her qualified expenses. She has about $1,400 each month at this time in the account above her amount for the nursing home cost and allowed expenses per month. I wrote from her account a check for her real estate taxes for this year. Should I ask the state DHHR for that amount to be refunded to her? Also, I received recently a statement from her home insurance carrier for the premium due on that insurance. I know her house will be sold once she passes, and that entire amount will be taken as part of her estate since her medicaid expenses, while she's been in the nursing home, will be more than her entire estate is worth. My question is, is she required to keep home owners insurance on her house? If so, is that premium amount a qualified expense that I should ask DHHR to reimburse her for? Of course that amount is for several hundred dollars and would take most of the extra money she has left in her checking account.
After talking to friends in similar situations and reading all the info on this thread (amazing knowledge shared here BTW) the sad fact is that it's difficult, not impossible, to sell or rent a vacant house without jumping through all the hoops. Most folks I talk to do little or no upkeep, cancel utilities and HOI. I know of no laws requiring HOI to be maintained unless there's a mortgage and the lender requires it.
I'm in Mi but my folks are in WV. I'm trying to ease them into care and out if the house. When that happens I'll close the place up, disconnect the utilities, cancel the insurance and haveva nephew mow the grass and keep an eye on the place.
I'm not interested in paying a financial advisor or attorney fees to try and come out ahead somehow on a crappy little house that will be a shove down when the estate is sold.
I have a POA for my mom. I've taken care of mom's house, mowing, etc. I paid for her utilities, real estate taxes, and HOI, up until now using from the money she was allowed to have, $2,000, before the medicaid kicked in. She still has about $1,200 or so of that $2,000 in her joint checking account that I'm on too. I've only used money from that account for those costs, care for her or the house. But because the house has been empty since my older brother passed, and I was told by the DHHR from the get go that I CAN'T SELL OR RENT THE HOUSE, I recently stopped all the utilities. No one lives in the house, or will. Because of me being told by the DHHR if I put the house up for sell, or rent, she would lose the medicaid benefits that pays for her NH expenses by medicaid. Me or my surviving brother don't use or take any of her money, except for her or the house. Or do we expect or want a thing that is hers and will be her estate that's sold and used for her past and future expenses. I'm just trying to manage her affairs the best I can within the rules and guidelines. If I just knew what they all are it would help me.
As I said, my brother and I want nothing, and know we won't get a penny from mom's estate. Her house and total estate won't pay for all her expenses paid by medicaid. The house has a market value of $60,000, maybe. Surely much less than $100,000. Just my guess. It's not trashy, and in decent condition. Just old, not a modern laid out floor plan, a nice size lot, and nice separate large block garage. The heat is a almost new central gas unit. But a old central A/C. As I mentioned, I've mowed all year, or paid for it to be done at times when I was away on trips, etc. And had the utilities stopped because of her dwindling funds. Yes, because we have cold freezing winters I will go there soon and winterize the house. Draining the water lines as best I can, and put antifreeze in the drain lines to prevent freezing and bursting lines.
As mentioned earlier, my brother and I know when she passes all her estate will be sold and the proceeds taken by the government because of her expenses exceeds the value for the estate. We just need to know do we HAVE TO continue the HOI and paying real estate taxes, even after her personal funds are gone? We, my brother and I, don't want to buy the house. Neither of us has the money to do that. But we don't want to use our money to pay for the house expenses either, if we don't have to. The way we see it, we don't get it after she passes, or anything of her estate. So why should we pay for the upkeep on it for the government? I've keep the outside looking decent, by mowing, etc., since our older brother passed. Why should I be expected to do more?
My brother and I excepted the fact before we had to have mom put in the NH, that we'd never get anything from our old home place. Our parents estate. We know that and have just moved on from that thought in our minds. But at the same time, I know I have to do whatever the rules are set by the government. State and/or federal. I guess as my wife said to me yesterday, maybe I need to spend some of my own money and get advice from a lawyer? Especially since it seems I'm not getting the answers from the DHHR. Plus I don't know where else to get the true facts on the guidelines here in WV. I'm not in this to use her money, or take what belongs to the state or federal government. I just want to take care of our mom and her affairs as best I can. Do wants right, and legal.
Thanks to all for your information, etc. I appreciate it very much.
Insurance co if they find out that the owner has moved, or is not a true owner of the property (like its via a Quit claim), or policy in the DPOAs name...they could invalidate the policy & not honor a claim. Not pretty.
Thanks for all your answers and suggestions, there are very much appreciated.
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