I am an Activity Coordinator at an Assisted Living Facility for 5 years and I am struggling with keeping our resident's mentally & physically busy, no matter what you offer, it is always too hard to do or to far to walk to or any other excuse. I do know all has a choice to participate.
It turned out, it was the tax guy or her doctors who she liked. So, invite people who might be interested in speaking with the elderly. If you have men and or women, try to get the opposite sex to come and speak with them. Also, younger people are helpful sometimes too.
My mom hated my dog, so I can't say pet therapy, but any kind of intellectually stimulating people might help. If I get old and have to hang around old people like me, I think I would not be particularly motivated either...
Call the Library and ask what they have on the agenda. They offer everything for free and often have intellectually stimulating things going on... there are book groups and speakers at my library all the time. They have a nice calendar every month.
Come up with good questions for them and ask them what their interests are. For example, ask them what they were most proud of accomplishing in their past. If someone was a nurse, or someone else was in the war, I bet you could find people in the community who would be interested in coming to speak with them about their topics of interest. Or have them do presentations for each other.
Do any of them have the ability to put on a presentation for the others? Some might be great photographers, or an outstanding business person, or someone who was a great baker. Have them have the floor and set up some simple guidelines on what to present. For example, they must keep it to 20 minutes. They have to start with an objective, must ask the audience questions (so it's interactive)... Guidelines for good presentations... say what you mean to cover, cover the topic, then summarize what you covered.
Bottom line is make it all about them. As what's most important to them. They are intelligent people who have lived long and fruitful lives. I bet they have something interesting to say about their long journeys. I bet they are proud of what they accomplished. I bet they would love to show it off to the others. Then be sure to talk about how they have to show up for each other... and be kind.
I know this is a bit off beat, but I hope it's helpful... I would love it if someone would ask me to put together an engaging, fun presentation!
It was hilarious... then they could tell the jokes to family visitors through out the coming week. Some of the jokes were pretty lame, but no matter... everyone thought my mom was funny because she always had a new joke from her exercise class.
The music programs at the day program are put on by churches, schools, individuals that volunteer, anywhere. And the groups have the opportunity to practice before a not very discerning, but very appreciative audience. You could also contact a service dog organization to have members visit with their dogs. So many, many things.
Ultimately, think about what they might do at home, on their own, if they were able (without assistance) and add a program to do it, with your/staff's help.