She refuses to bathe and if I would let her would keep the same clothes on day and night. I am at the point where I am using baby wipes to at least wipe her off every day. I sneak into her room to remove the dirty clothes so I can wash them. I am so tired of this daily battle.
I am sorry to hear what you are going through. Unfortunately, this is a common issue for many elders and their caregivers. Below is an article written by our AgingCare.com editors to help caregivers like you!
My Parent Won’t Shower or Change Clothes. What Should I Do?
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/elderly-parents-who-wont-shower-or-change-clothes-133877.htm
Hope this helps :)