I am going on 87 years of age and recently filled out the paperwork leaving my body to science. This is acceptable to my children, but some outside the family think it was a bad idea on my part, as likely my body will be mutilated by unfeeling medical students whose only interests are furthering their career in medicine. But why should I care? My remains will eventually be cremated and returned to the family, and I will have in a small way contributed to science. Should I be concerned what others think about my decision, if it's acceptable to me and my children?
You’ve made a generous decision. And you don’t owe anyone an explanation for your choice.
You might share that with your naysayers.
Some folks just like to be argumentative, remember.
Come on!
Stop discussing YOUR wishes with others and that way, you won't know what their opinions are. Ignorance is bliss in that regard!
”What?! You can’t tell me what to do with my body when I die!”
“And yet here you are, telling me.”
I am astounded at the number of people who feel entitled to bestow their opinions on others, when something is clearly none of their business.
Tell them you’re considering a second option. Remains shipped to Tibet for a sky burial.
"Why a donation may be denied:
Mayo Clinic makes every effort to accept all program-registered donors. Below are some reasons why the program might deny a donation:
- The potential donor has an infectious or contagious disease (such as HIV/AIDS, hepatitis B or hepatitis C, or prion diseases).
- The next of kin objects to the donation of the body.
- The body is not acceptable for anatomical study (extremely emaciated or extremely obese).
- The body has been autopsied or mutilated or is decomposed.
- The donor is not in the Mayo Clinic anatomical bequest program's care within 48 hours of death.
- The donor was embalmed prior to arrival at Mayo's facility.
- Donations are not needed at the time."
You need to find out if your body goes back to the family and they (or someone) still has to pay for final cremation/burial.
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