Went in to sign the contract. In the legalese was this statement
It encompassed all emergencies - natural disaster or heart attack, stroke, etc.
I thought that seemed like a large time span. Was told it likely would be much sooner but legally, yes, they have that long.
Is this a standard clause or practice in memory care? Can't seem to find data on it.
I regularly received phone calls, early morning or late evening usually once a week telling me dad fell (and I'm not kidding). They called after they had gotten dad up and check him over and rechecked him so I'd say they'd call within an hour of his falling. Even if he fell at 2AM and no real damage (usually bruising and scrapes) I would be ok with them waiting to call at 7am - if on the other hand it was bad enough to send him to ER, then they better call once he's on his way to ER or I'd be raking them over the coals.
While it would be distressing - if there were an emergency such as earthquake, tornado striking the building, etc, I could see it easily being a lengthy time before notification - not saying I would be happy about the delay but in a situation like that there is only so much they can do.
We had heard good things about this particular place; I think the Exec Director could have explained it better than he did but I do feel somewhat better now.
Would expect more delays in cases of natural disasters. Mainly concerned that if Mom had a heart attack or stroke, she could pass away in a hospital and we'd miss the chance of being w/ her to love & comfort her.
Thanks again.
I don't recall seeing that in my mother's documents, but may not have noticed it. They would call me and report even minor tumbles mom had. Cell service is not very good where I live and there's even a 30-40 dead zone I have to cross when going a certain way to my own duties and appointments. I always advise everyone to leave a brief message (who you are and a # to reach you at) because the notification that I have a msg generally appears right away, even if the call didn't register.
The one time early in her stay at MC that I heard after the fact was when I was away for hours. I had just arrived home when they called to ask if I could pick her up at the ER. Alternative was better - there's a local transport service that is closer to the hospital and since the facility is in the same town, the charge was only $10. I would have been much later. At least a 20m drive to get there, maybe 25, and would have to unload my car first. So, I didn't hear about this tumble. They likely tried to call but didn't leave a message and since they couldn't reach me, they sent her off to the ER (needlessly - she would really just tumble, not really fall, so no injury, not even a bruise.)
So, if you consider that, they would need some kind of window to allow them to contact you in the event that you weren't available. Highly unlikely they are waiting 12 hours to seek treatment or care. In all other cases, they called me right away to report anything they considered a potential change in her condition. If their window was more like 10m, and they can't reach you, would you then blame them for not contacting you, even though they tried and couldn't make contact in that 10m? We aren't always available, so they need some guidance - if there's a way to leave a message, certainly they should be doing that right away, but they can't leave a lot of detail, just in case the dial wrong (HIPPA.)
Once she's settled in, you will find out whether they make quick contact or not. Unless it's a really crappy place, I wouldn't be overly concerned about that CYA in the document. IF you find they are lax about making contact for issues, then consider moving elsewhere.
"I have an update: this is apparently a CA state minimum all senior living centers must meet."
I would think every state has requirements that every facility must meet and they would have to state it in the document. Think about it - if they can't reach anyone who is responsible for the person in 10, 20, 30 minutes, they could be held liable for not contacting you ASAP. Of course we'd want updates as soon as possible, if there was an emergency, but this does NOT mean they aren't responsible for checking your LO all the time. It is regarding contacting the representative within a reasonable time if there is a concern or emergency. If you aren't available, is it their fault they can't reach you right away?
My mother's facility always contacted me right away if there was ANY concern at all. THIS is what you would base your concerns on. If they aren't checking on them and staying in touch, find another place that will. Visit often enough and at random times so that you can see for yourself how well cared for your LO is. Any time I went, and yes, I varied the days/times, my mother was always dressed, clean, fed and well cared for.
Facility's refusal to allow cameras is clearly for the benefit of the memory facility, not for residents or their families. Congress needs to change this.
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