I am her and my 67 yr old disabled brothers caregiver. She got released she called a lawyer and filed a dvpo against me. I was removed from the home. Not allowed back in home till court date in two weeks. Unless I hire a lawyer there don't seem to be anything I can do. She controls all money. What can I do, who can I talk too?
But now that the restraining order has been quashed, You certainly have removed your furniture, right?
And you can visit your brother?
After your stuff is out, go to a security store and get a wide angle, motion activated nanny cam.
You'll need to find an unobtrusive place to afix it where it won't be noticed or bothered.
Retrieve it and download it into your computer.
All you need is one of your mother's inappropriate incidents to prove your contention.
Since you are no longer a resident, there may be restrictions. Many jurisdictions, there is no law against video, only audio.
Be careful to follow the law in your area. If you don't, the material you gather could not only be unusable, it could also get you in trouble.