For context she still lives independently and does not have a dementia diagnosis but Alzheimer's runs in the family. She told me today that she struggles a few minutes to remember it when asked it. Is this normal aging or is this a sign of mental trouble?
Some adult children get worried as soon as their parent turns 65 or 70 and forgets something. Some people get worried about themselves when this happens. Some slower recall is okay.
One rule of thumb: If she forgets her keys, that's normal. If she forgets what her keys are for - that's a problem.
If you truly feel that she's having problems, see if she'll just go for a general checkup. Older people can get a urinary tract infection which can wreck havoc with their memories and even their personalities. The same is true about prescription medications and even OTC drugs such as sleeping aids. Then there's thyroid disease. A possible vitamin deficiency can be an issue. If you approach her about her general health, such as blood pressure or getting her medications refilled, you can always write the doctor ahead of time and lay out your concerns. Then the physician would have a heads-up to know what to look for.
Please keep us posted Fairydust. If your mom is developing dementia symptoms it could be from any number of issues. Let us know if she seems to be getting worse and if you've managed to convince her to have a physical.
Take care,
Carol
Take care,
Carol