I have no legal power or knowledge of any kind of her banking, savings, her will or anything. She has never trusted anyone in her life. I am the only child and do not deserve just hateful belligerent treatment. What are my responsibilties if she abuses other people at the bank, police, her neighbors? Her in assisted living or some type of medication to reel in her extreme aggression.
Of course that won't stop it making you squirm on her behalf, but you are in no way responsible. Learning not to FEEL responsible, and not to allow yourself to be made to feel responsible, for the behaviour of other people over whom you have no control is, by the way, an important personal breakthrough - well worth working on.
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