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What happens if the Assisted Living asks mom to leave because she is difficult? She doesn't have anywhere else to go? She didn't like living with my sister and her husband. I commute to work- gone from home for 15 hours.
MotherDear I know it must be a constant worry to you that your mom would lose her home. Since her attitude doesn’t sound new. I think I would speak to the staff and let them tell you how she is when you are not there just in case her unhappiness is reserved for her family. How long has she been in the ALF? Also be sure to check her out for a UTI as that could be causeing worse behavior. Have her meds checked by a geriatric psychiatrist. It would be wonderful if some adjustment could make her happier. Check her feet and make sure her nails are trimmed and her shoes fit her properly. Notice if she appears to have pain in any part of her body when you hug her. You might try asking she be given whichever pain reliever she can have, just to see if she responds. Does she sleep well? Do ask the ALF under what circumstances they have asked someone to leave. You might find that she’s not as disruptive as you think. I suppose you could start looking in order to have a back up facility if it would help your anxiety. Do you or your sister have POA? Does your mom have other health issues besides dementia? What stage is she? Be sure to take care of yourself. Ask her for a hug. Ask her for a smile. Be sure to give her one of your own.
Thank you Rovana and 97yroldmom for the responses. Great food for thought. Mom is easily confused. Sometimes she seems competent and then a bit later she is back to being unreasonable. She is angry she had to leave her place. Great ideas 97yroldmom. We will definitely speak with the staff and look into having her meds evaluated by a geriatric psychiatrist. She said she is sleeping better. She has fibromyalgia, her heart is weak. The doctor says she has dementia and Alzheimer's. It isn't severe because the ALF doesn't have memory care. We have POA. We will take care of ourselves, hug and smile with mom. Thank you so much we appreciate the support.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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I know it must be a constant worry to you that your mom would lose her home.
Since her attitude doesn’t sound new. I think I would speak to the staff and let them tell you how she is when you are not there just in case her unhappiness is reserved for her family. How long has she been in the ALF?
Also be sure to check her out for a UTI as that could be causeing worse behavior. Have her meds checked by a geriatric psychiatrist. It would be wonderful if some adjustment could make her happier. Check her feet and make sure her nails are trimmed and her shoes fit her properly. Notice if she appears to have pain in any part of her body when you hug her. You might try asking she be given whichever pain reliever she can have, just to see if she responds. Does she sleep well?
Do ask the ALF under what circumstances they have asked someone to leave. You might find that she’s not as disruptive as you think.
I suppose you could start looking in order to have a back up facility if it would help your anxiety.
Do you or your sister have POA? Does your mom have other health issues besides dementia?
What stage is she?
Be sure to take care of yourself. Ask her for a hug. Ask her for a smile. Be sure to give her one of your own.
Mom is easily confused. Sometimes she seems competent and then a bit later she is back to being unreasonable. She is angry she had to leave her place. Great ideas 97yroldmom. We will definitely speak with the staff and look into having her meds evaluated by a geriatric psychiatrist. She said she is sleeping better. She has fibromyalgia, her heart is weak. The doctor says she has dementia and Alzheimer's. It isn't severe because the ALF doesn't have memory care. We have POA. We will take care of ourselves, hug and smile with mom. Thank you so much we appreciate the support.