I tell mom that I'm going to the store she forgets and calls my job disrupting the nurses station looking for me . What do I do ? I am a RN at a busy hospital she calls looking for me when I run to the store or out in the yard doing things . This is the third time she has done this I took the work number off the list of numbers and left my cell phone number and apologized to the staff , I am so embarrassed I have no idea what she said on the phone with them. Believe it or not she calls the living room the cellar .. I bet she told them she was in the cellar omgg .. Did your family member ever make work life miserable ? I'm so afraid of getting fired . I have no one else to help since my sister died last aug . Thank you all for your help in advance.
With my husband I used paper. I would put a slip with large writing AT TARGET, home by 3:30. That ususally worked fine and kept him from wandering around the house looking for me.
I agree about removing your work phone numbers, and I also suggest you keep her informed about your whereabouts, since she isn't remembering what you tell her.
You could also put a big sign ON THE PHONE handset that says you're at the store and will be back in 15 minutes or whatever. Attach it to the receiver. Add "DO NOT CALL THE HOSPITAL" to that sign. Or tape the phone handset down with that sign attached. These are kind of drastic measures, but I'm trying to be creative with a difficult situation.