Now she is permanently conserved. At the temporary hearing the county council said they should sell the house which she owns to pay for her care. I was taking care of her with the blood pressure pill at night and in the morning with her Plavix pill. She wants out of the skilled nursing facility and tried to follow me when I found out I could visit her 7/1/14! By the end of the week I had a restraining order on me and now I can't visit her for three years! She's 87 btw! I talked to an attorney today and she said it is hard to get a restraining order lifted and hard to do anything about the restraining order. Then she photocopied my court papers and ended the interview.
She followed you out of the nursing home? My sister used to bring home dogs and tell my Dad they followed her. He didn't believe her either.
im pretty sure my aunt has been conserved by the state and placed in NH . many reasons . daughter is ill herself , daughter was doing a lousy job -- nearly let aunt die of pneumonia and wouldnt get her an appointment with doc . aunt was having too many falls in independant living .
aps is only concerned for the well being of the elder . something in your home was way off .
Your story still doesn't make a lot of sense to me, but that's OK, I don't think we're going to offer you the kind of help you're seeking. Good luck in getting advice you find helpful.
Way too confusing for us, who haven't seen the paperwork. I think you need to accept what the lawyers say.
Your mother's age is no explanation at all.
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