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Can you give us more info? What kind of surgery? How old is your mom? Does she seem to be doing OK, or is she still having problems relative to why she needed the surgery? Maybe she'd consider going to her regular doc and he/she could check her out?
Rectocele ,,8o....2 week check up doesn't see the point of any doctors tired of them telling her to eat and she feels like she is feeling worse...Also on meds for depression and anxiety she feels like effecting her eyesight , dizziness, weakness,and thinking. Doctors don't seem to listen to her concerns...they tell her to think positive and Eat.
Well, in looking up what a rectocele is, I wouldn't be too thrilled about a checkup for that either, if it seemed like things are going OK in that physical area.
Do you go with her to her appointments and speak up if the doctors don't listen to her? If it were my mom, I'd try to make sure she had a good gerontologist or internist who could handle most of her issues and I'd go with her and be her advocate if they try to dismiss her concerns. If the antidepressents and anxiety meds are causing her issues, then she needs to see if others would work. Do you have her Power of Attorney? If so, could you speak to her primary doctor about some of these issues to see if he/she has any ideas to help before your visit? I'd also ask about an appetite stimulant if her appetite is down and she needs to eat more, but doesn't feel like it. I'd also make sure she's hydrated, as dehydration can cause light-headedness, dizziness and fuzzy thinking. If her doctor isn't helpful, then find a new doctor.
Has your mom always been this way, or is this a new kind of behavior for her (resisting doc's visits)? Has she suffered from depression and anxiety for a long time? If so, aging may just be making those already long-term patterns worse.
mom only new to depression this July . She has been on meds short time. She thought she would be dead by now from breast cancer 10 yrs. ago. She stayed away from doctors herself. Took son to all his numerous appointments saw how doctors give pill after pills...Son on 15 pills a day....She wants a quality of life which she doesn't have now...
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Doctors don't seem to listen to her concerns...they tell her to think positive and Eat.
Do you go with her to her appointments and speak up if the doctors don't listen to her? If it were my mom, I'd try to make sure she had a good gerontologist or internist who could handle most of her issues and I'd go with her and be her advocate if they try to dismiss her concerns. If the antidepressents and anxiety meds are causing her issues, then she needs to see if others would work. Do you have her Power of Attorney? If so, could you speak to her primary doctor about some of these issues to see if he/she has any ideas to help before your visit? I'd also ask about an appetite stimulant if her appetite is down and she needs to eat more, but doesn't feel like it. I'd also make sure she's hydrated, as dehydration can cause light-headedness, dizziness and fuzzy thinking. If her doctor isn't helpful, then find a new doctor.
Has your mom always been this way, or is this a new kind of behavior for her (resisting doc's visits)? Has she suffered from depression and anxiety for a long time? If so, aging may just be making those already long-term patterns worse.