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She is playing games and I don't know what to do. I know she is doing this on purpose because my daughter lives with her and hears her say I'm not answering
I think more information is needed. She says "I'm not answering"? Angrily, breezily, craftily? With a gleeful look in her eye? Are you two in contention over something?
FYI, before my dad had a stroke, before I even noticed that he was showing signs of senility, he used to answer the phone. Then one day, he refused. It would ring and ring until he finally answered it. When he did, he was very fast to answer and then give me the phone immediately - even if it was my siblings calling to wish him a bday or xmas greetings. The times that I forced him to take the phone and just talk to them, I noticed that he would say, "Huh? Huh? I can't hear you. This something wrong with the phone."
Then as time went by, I noticed that he would repeat the same thing, same subject, the same words - to my siblings every time they called. He would have these exact set of conversations he would say to all my siblings - Exactly the same.... We just shrugged it off as old age and him not having much subjects to talk about..... As time went by, I noticed, and even my long-distance brother, that dad would confuse him with my dad's brother. No matter how many times we tried to correct him, in my dad's mind - my brother is his brother. Yet, within that same conversation, he would remember that his brother died years ago.
Is your mom playing games? And why? Or is she hiding something that you might notice and your daughter wouldn't? FYI, I'm living in my parents' home. I was too close to situation to NOT notice that Dad was already going down the senile lane. Oldest sis, who was at the time, not living was us - actually saw it before me. I always wondered why she gave me a puzzled looks when I complained about Dad.
Can you rely on your daughter to inform you of changes in Mom's health or circumstances? If it isn't really necessary to talk to her on the phone, how about switching to sending cheery little notes and cards? You could add something like, "I'd love to talk to you. Call me when it is convenient."
She may be playing games, but you don't have to join in the game.
Has she been tested recently or shown signs of losing her hearing? Sometimes people don't want to talk on the phone if they're having trouble understanding what's being said but don't want to admit it, or may not even recognize that they're having hearing difficulties.
Has she had her ears cleaned lately?
Hearing loss can occur for specific ranges. My father can hear men well but has more trouble understanding women with higher pitched and softer voices.
What does your daughter say about this new development?
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Then as time went by, I noticed that he would repeat the same thing, same subject, the same words - to my siblings every time they called. He would have these exact set of conversations he would say to all my siblings - Exactly the same.... We just shrugged it off as old age and him not having much subjects to talk about..... As time went by, I noticed, and even my long-distance brother, that dad would confuse him with my dad's brother. No matter how many times we tried to correct him, in my dad's mind - my brother is his brother. Yet, within that same conversation, he would remember that his brother died years ago.
Is your mom playing games? And why? Or is she hiding something that you might notice and your daughter wouldn't? FYI, I'm living in my parents' home. I was too close to situation to NOT notice that Dad was already going down the senile lane. Oldest sis, who was at the time, not living was us - actually saw it before me. I always wondered why she gave me a puzzled looks when I complained about Dad.
Can you rely on your daughter to inform you of changes in Mom's health or circumstances? If it isn't really necessary to talk to her on the phone, how about switching to sending cheery little notes and cards? You could add something like, "I'd love to talk to you. Call me when it is convenient."
She may be playing games, but you don't have to join in the game.
(Things would be different if she lived alone.)
Has she had her ears cleaned lately?
Hearing loss can occur for specific ranges. My father can hear men well but has more trouble understanding women with higher pitched and softer voices.
What does your daughter say about this new development?