Recently my mom has been confused about her daughter (me) and says there are 2 of me. I can't convince her otherwise. If I try to tell her there is only one of me, she laughs and says we are tricking her! I don't want to play along forever but she may forget about later. This has been going on for about a three-week period of time. Help!
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After a few infections, my Mom took a slippery slope down hill. Here we are 18 months later and she often calls me by name but at other times introduces me as her sister. Heck, she was VERY close to that sister so I am taking it as a compliment! My Mom is in her late 90s so I feel blessed that she was all right for so many years. But I have learned not to correct her. In her world, her brothers and sisters are alive and well and she is living in her girlhood home. She is always smiling and laughs a lot. Why would I want to tell her I'm not her sister? Or that she no longer lives in that home she grew up in? She is reliving her childhood and seems happy.
Odd as it seems, the belief that there are multiple copies of a person is an identified delusion. Try looking up "Reduplicative Paramnesia" and see if this strikes a chord with you. In any case, I don't think this is a do-it-yourself project, and there really is no way to just reason a person out of the belief.
I hope you have good success with getting medical guidance regarding what is going on with your mother.
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