My mother is 92 in April and has suffered for years. Nov.30 she had her last stroke and now wishes to die.
We've had her reveal her wishes to my father yet he is now forcing liquids and food along with insisting she get out of bed.
The battle to let her go has left me lifeless and beaten.
I've cared for her since May 6 away from my own home state. I need to go home
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My father used to hide his food in little blue bags stuffed here and there. That way my mother was thinking he was eating it. Later he would get the little bags and put them in the garbage. Little gets past the caregiver (me), since I handled the garbage. Sly old fox. :)
He isn't telling at her. Just a wild man when it comes to others infringing. She can no longer feed herself and doesn't want nourishment.
I don't want all this resentment! When she goes I'm taking him on in my own home. I am growing to hate his voice :-/
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Watching them makes him feel helpless, a very anti-manly feeling.