I'm moving her closer to me and in hopes of getting better care. I am over seeing my moms care alone. I have no family and I work full time so I'm struggling to do it all. I'm still caring for her huge home and paying the bills from her income. I am also taking care of my home my pets and hers. I'm so afraid my mom will be more work than they wanted and they kick her out and then what do I do? So how do I make this move go smooth. Any body have thing your would have done differently? I appreciate all your input.
Mom complained about food. The ALF said they don't have any food committees, corporate policy. Did I move Mom? Nope. Instead I quoted the state law, chapter and section, that requires adult care homes to have food committees. Problem solved, not just for one patient, but for 80 of them.
I tend to agree with Pam.
Loose the guilt over this. You have done nothing wrong. You are being a good daughter by making sure that your mother is safe and taken care of and you are being a responsible adult by taking care of yourself and your own life. Prayers, Love and Hugs
Also, I think her house need to be sold and the income used to pay for her care.
I canceled the move. Lost 1/2 of my 2600. Deposit but oh well. Mom wants to stay. I will just keep driving the distance. Thxs all