Mom is 94, has dementia, and refuses to move out of her home, or even entertain the thought of it. She won't even go on a tour of a facility. I have an appointment for an assessment on her and hope to get her healthcare POA activated. So here is the question, even with that, how do I get Mom moved? I can lie and tell her we are going out to lunch, but when we drive up to the facility, she will know better. What if she refuses to get out of the car? Ideas on how to pull this off would be most appreciated.