Last night, X-mas eve she hurled the Dish-draner across the Kitchen. I ask her what is wrong with you!? She says I don't have anywhere to put this, my counter tops are cover with stuff. She keeps stuff on her counter top so that they won't get damaged. Anyway I got mad at her. I find it hard to control myself. It just ruined the evening. She wanted to have just 4 of us over to have tamales. She ordered 5 dozen. That pissed me off too. I want her to get on meds, but she says she doesn't want anymore. She cries all day and yells all day. It is so sad that she is spending her years so miserable. HOPELESSNESS?
Mom needs to see a doctor. She needs to be tested and evaluated for dementia or other mental illness. She needs to be on medication. If she is that out of control, she needs professional help. It’s only “hopeless” if you do nothing. .
doctor this week. When she
see him she fakes doctor out,
I have been there. My last
visit with her at doctors I got
him to get her to see a
therapist. But she has only
went once. I do believe they need to put her on depression meds. Also last summer she beat some man's car with her hands at the gas station.
As to the tamales...they freeze well and then when ready for some just pop them into the microwave to reheat. (smile). Hang in there.