Getting a roof on our house today so it will be a BAD day. I have had poor response from sheriff department in the past. He is so negative. I'm taking a caregiver course at local senior center- seems so pointless as it focuses on positivity.Bruises up and down my arms. Can't go on like this!.
Write down the telephone number for your hospital's ER and keep it near you.... if hubby gets abusive call the ER yourself and explain the situation, since you feel the Sheriff hasn't been helpful in the past [which tells me your hubby has been aggressive before].... let the ER call 911 for you.
Get your husband to the hospital NOW and find out what's going on. He may have reached the point now of needing placement in a facility - as hard as that will be, it is in both of your best interests.