My mom is on Medicaid in Ohio. How do I handle the funds from her home sale?

March over to an eldercare attorney ASAP.

I live in Georgia so rules may be different. I would go to an elder attorney. They can help set up a trust so you don’t lose all her assets. When I worked at hospice I knew several families who benefited from their services. It may cost up front but it helps through the process.

Rose, if mom doesn't need anything, I would just payback Medicaid and not go through the hassle of her going off and then having to re-apply.

You could buy her some cozy winter clothes and a few nice blankets, warm slippers maybe a few pairs, a new summer wardrobe, new shoes and slippers, some snacks she enjoys, buy shelf stable items and buy extra. Does she use a wheel chair? Buy her seat cushions and several lovely covers. How about the in-house beautician? Can you have her hair and nails done, weekly for the month she is flush. Definitely buy the staff at the nursing home pizzas, for all three shifts and enough for everyone. Showing them how much their care of mom means to you can make her caregivers a little less stressed and win her more regard. There are lots of ways to spend a few grand.

I would make this as easy as possible for you. Get a plan together before you have the money in hand, that way it is quick and simple. Order items or go shopping and whatever is left goes to Medicaid. I think you run into a problem when the money shows on a beginning balance, so request the check the 1st day of her statement cycle, this should be no problem, then you have to spend whatever you are buying for her and write a check to Medicaid before the last day of the statement cycle.

Oh, I would buy her a couple of beautiful silk floral arrangements to brighten her room. You could get an extra set and rotate them out.

Anything to help her feel special is a good thing.

Is 13.5 the actual appraisal? Because that # will be quite a bit less after all the real estate and title company fees, keep that in mind.

Yes, as others have said, get with an attorney -- elder care and specifically experience with Medicaid in YOUR State. While Medicaid is a shared State/Federal program; many aspects of the program are State-specific.

Not that this is legal advice for you to take any specific action listed herein without actual legal advice from a licensed attorney in your state and one experienced with elder care/Medicaid issues; but worth checking on these potential options:

-- Many states will allow one to "pre-pay" funeral expenses but that may have to be paid before qualifying for Medicaid long term care coverage in your State. I did this w/my mom; we prepaid all her funeral expenses in advance and that took up about $13K of her assets NOT including the burial plot which had been part of a prior family "purchase" years ago. Yikes I know, expensive for burial/funeral and this included no service other than a gravesite service. We live in an expensive urban area on the east coast.

-- My mom's nursing home (and she qualified to Medicaid long term care coverage in our State well over a year ago) will let me to "write an extra check" as needed to the nursing home to "keep her below out State's asset limit." Because there is NOT much of anything to spend my mom's money on (she has dementia and is pretty far along, not like she goes out or does much) AND she gets both a monthly Social Security payment and Federal Employee "annuity payment" (my dad passed away when I was a kid, he worked for the USG and mom never remarried; so she get's his "pension") AND Medicaid only allows my mom to keep about $90.00 but the bank account nevertheless has to remain under a total of $2K; I often have to write an "extra check" to the nursing home just to keep her under the $2K total asset limit. I suppose other states allow this as if there is not much to spend what little money there is on anything, then what to do?

-- Other option (dependent on proper legal advice) is take the funds and tell your State Medicaid Office. She would be "disqualified" for the period of time until which she re-qualifies after the funds are spent down. With the cost of long-term nursing home care it may only take one month of paying privately whereby that $13K in proceeds from the sale of the house are spent down AND THEN she reapplies for State Medicaid long-term care coverage. There was a point last year where my mom may have been in line to inherit some funds from a distant relative and those funds would have put her over our State Medicaid asset limit. Our attorney said, she would just remain where she was at her current nursing home and we would start the spend down process again and, then, re-apply for Medicaid once she had spent down. Good news for us, that relative had a newer Will which did NOT give my mom anything, so this potential issue was all moot. But still good to know in our State the "spend down" process just restarts if your LO comes into some larger funds.

All to say, get with an elder care lawyer licensed in your state w/Medicaid experience. Your LOs nursing home may have some names to suggest. OR contact your area agency on aging for a recommendation for a lawyer. Last option, contact the law schools in your State as many run "pro bono" or low cost "legal aid" programs to help folks with various legal matters when paying a lawyer is out of the question. AND of course you can pay that lawyer with the proceeds of the sale of the property too which may be another way to "get rid" of some of the funds legally.

Call the Medicaid office. I'm not sure why the NH is telling you that because they accept people every day who start as self pay and end up with Medicaid application and processing once the funds are spent down. Medicaid rep can also tell you when to file the reapplication - at what point as money spent down. It sounds more like the NH doesn't want to do any extra paperwork now that they have her on Medicaid....prefer to leave as is.

Actually, you are required to report changes in income/resources. Money from sale of house is a new countable resource. House was excluded all this time because a form was signed indicating her desire to return. So not reporting it could result in penalty months where Medicaid won't pay. Social workers at NH should certainly be aware of requirements to report.

You also have the option of going to elder atty to set up trust so that the funds can be used for medical needs and other things mom might need, however atty fees could possibly eat up much of the sale of the house.

Get an attorney to advise. I'm thinking another option would be to just deposit the funds in an interest bearing bank account and don't touch them. Then, when mom passes and the state may seek to recover costs, you can provide them the funds from that account.

Hi to you,..The 30 days for “Spend Down rule “is always counted from the First day of each month so if you receive a check or the check-money clears in the bank in the middle of the month after your mom’s Valubles sold ,..than only lives you with so many days to spend the money down what is left from the same month. Therefore the check has to clear on the First day of the month when you ready to “spend down” A SNT attorney can advise you if you wan to open a Special Need Trust for your mom with her own mint after everything was sold . But if the whole after sale-Valubles is under $20000 than maybe the best to spend down in 30 days and buy all or something that your mom’s needs . Because You going to have to show to Medicaid ,..what the money was spend to and for your mom to benefit . Otherwise Medicaid can take all the money to compensate Itself for all those for providing benefits by Medicaid was giving for many years of care for your mom . This is call a Payback Medicaid Rule” The best and easiest way to spend down to buy a Car but in both of your name and make sour you know to have / put on the Title “ and “ between the two names ( your mom’s name & yours ) because if they put “ or ‘ that is not good . This way you can later explain Medicaid your mother benefited by buying a car because this way you are able to visit her. So trade your car in at the same time and get a better car on both of your name ( putting her name first “ and “ your name . This way Medicaid can not take the car from you for “ payback “ once your mom left her body . Always good to talk with a SNT attorney about these. Good luck and be aware of the “Medicaid Payback law”

Rose61mary: Perhaps you would do yourself a favor by retaining an elder law attorney.

An elder law attorney is well versed in Medicaid. They can also help with house closings

Rose, you had asked a similar question regarding funds from a home sale. Go to this link to see answers :)

agingcare.com/questions/money-from-home-sale-any-advice-477874.htm