As in the brother from New Mexico post. I am the baby. There are 2 of us. I’ve been around my mom for 51 yrs but since she got dementia issues my brother came for her. But he was sly. He went through APS and is telling me he’s doing what they say. My dad became totally and permanently disabled in 1981. I was 11 and my brother was around but not really there. It was me who helped take care of my dad. I quit school when I was 16 and my mom went to work. I was there everytime they cut water or electricity off with them so it was the three of us and it remained that way my dad died in 2008 so I wasn’t about to leave my mom. But my brother has his family 2 children 1 grandchild oh and the common law wife ex-methhead and daughter ex-heroine addict on suboxone and has to breathe in machine before she drives away. Don’t get me wrong, I love my niece so much. 1 time my mom went to visit and my niece managed to get my mom's credit card and take pictures and send money via Western Union to some loser. Well I feel railroaded by APS and my brother. I am alone now and it’s very hard to talk to my mom like they are hiding something. I know the wife gets a good kick out of it feeling so powerful and by the way my mom hates her, so what do I do know?
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