She has a terminal illness. She's receiving hospice care at home but it's me doing the brunt of the work and it's overwhelming. The hospice at home was not what we expected and there were meds and equipment she needed that she didn't get. Now she is back in the hospital. I don't know what will happen next. But if she is to get well enough to be discharged into hospice care, does it have to be at home?
I am so sorry for your situation.
Also, you can refuse to bring her home and tell the hospital social worker you need help to find a placement for her. If you let them discharge her to home, you lose that resource.