When mom came home from a nursing home we were billed as private pay for additional days of her stay. We were unaware that she had stayed past the 100 Medicare days allowed. The NH is requesting full payment for these days within a 12 month period. As the monthly payments exceed what we can afford, we offered to pay but on a 36 month plan. Are they required to accept our good faith offer of payment?
Why did they allow her to stay the additional days?
Who has financial poa? (minor question --how come nobody counted to 100 days? )
You stated in your post that "WE were billed as private pay for the additional days of her stay." You are not responsible for paying the bill----your mother is. The nursing home cannot demand payment from you, nor should you volunteer to pay them or accept any financial responsibility for the extra days. If your mother doesn't have any assets to speak of to pay them, then tell them to apply for Medicaid for your mother to get paid. Nursing homes are shrewd & know exactly what money/assets a person has & they should have notified you that the 100 day Medicare limit was quickly approaching instead of just keeping her without letting you know.
Let them sue your mother if it isn't important for her to maintain good credit. If they try to go after you for the outstanding balance, fight it.
Now, if your mother gave away her money/assets within 5 years of the time she went to private pay status, that could be a totally different story. If you received the money, you will probably have to pay the nursing home with the money your mother gave you.
The nursing home isn't required to accept any payment plan, but if they are decent, they will. But remember that you are in no way responsible for paying it.