my husband and I have been married 5 1/2 yrs he has Dementia. I plan on taking care of my husband with Dementia my mother has left me land when she dies. Craig if he were to go to a nursing home can they take my land his name isn't on deed. I pray I can take care of him my daughter is living with me to help nursing home wants 3000 an month and that leaves me only a small amount to live on then they want me to pay for medicaid also 3000 more so I cant put him in a home please let me know about the land his name isn't on it we have only been married 5 yrs thank you char
Your mother holds title to land which you inherit on her death. Is that incorporated into a Will or Trust, or are you a joint title holder with your mother?
Your husband is in no way connected to inheritance of the land, has no vested interest in it now and won't when you inherit it.
The nursing home would charge $3k per month and "they" want another $3k? I'm not clear what the additional $3k is for and who "they" are. I aldo don't understand what you mean that "they want [you] to pay for Medicaid."
Could you please explain a little bit more?
Does your husband qualify for Medicaid? Have you applied?
Do you live in a community property state? That might be a way your husband could acquire a legal interest in the property after your mother dies. But I'm not that familiar with community property laws; perhaps others here are. There are some folks here who are also really knowledgeable about Medicaid; perhaps they can provide a better answer than I.