My father has been at this nursing home for about 2 months, head nurse and social worker informed me today they would like to transfer him to a locked down facility that specializes in memory care. I have mixed feelings because he's close in proximity to me now but if he can get more specialized care elsewhere that may be beneficial to him. The thing is, he's on full LTC Medicaid, no other funds are available. I'm not sure a dedicated locked down memory care facility exists around here (CT) that accept Medicaid. I'm not sure how easy it will be to find another facility and I'm wondering if this nursing home truly is looking out for my father's best interests. Any thoughts appreciated or if someone knows of a good memory care facility in CT, please say so.
On the other hand, your Dad may be more than the facility believes that they can safely provide care for and this is a gentle way to tell you that. Falls happen, unfortunately, and they are difficult to prevent, particularly for residents who have dementia and don't know it. They forget they can't walk and try to go to to the bathroom without assistance, for example.
If you have a good relationship with the facility, talk to them about their concerns for your father and ask for their input on his needs. If a transfer or discharge is determined to be in his best interest, the facility has resources to assist you with Medicaid beds. If the facility you want is not available, they can put you on a waiting list. Until then, you can discuss additional interventions to keep your father safe, content and mentally stimulated.